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<!--Generated by Squarespace Site Server v5.11.81 (http://www.squarespace.com/) on Mon, 13 Feb 2012 15:28:22 GMT--><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"><title>TalentGrow</title><subtitle>blog</subtitle><id>http://www.talentgrow.com/blog/</id><link rel="alternate" type="application/xhtml+xml" href="http://www.talentgrow.com/blog/"/><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.talentgrow.com/blog/atom.xml"/><updated>2012-01-14T17:21:51Z</updated><generator uri="http://www.squarespace.com/" version="Squarespace Site Server v5.11.81 (http://www.squarespace.com/)">Squarespace</generator><entry><title>Training is Dead; Long Live Employee Development</title><category term="Employee Development on a Shoestring"/><category term="employee development"/><category term="learning"/><category term="supervision"/><category term="talent development"/><category term="training"/><id>http://www.talentgrow.com/blog/training-is-dead-long-live-employee-development.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.talentgrow.com/blog/training-is-dead-long-live-employee-development.html"/><author><name>TalentGrow</name></author><published>2012-01-14T16:34:41Z</published><updated>2012-01-14T16:34:41Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.talentgrow.com/storage/headphones%20coffee%20cereal%20book%20by%20Kevin_Morris%20via%20Flickr%20Creative%20Commons.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1326560738557" alt="" /></span></span>When I first told my husband about the idea for writing a book about employee development OUTSIDE the classroom and outside 'the box', he responded, &ldquo;You mean, you&rsquo;re going to write yourself out of a job?&rdquo; Why would someone who makes her living through facilitating learning (aka 'Training'), often within a classroom or a formal learning program, try to help supervisors, HR and training professionals, and employees find ways to develop skills outside the classroom and without her help?</p>
<p><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.talentgrow.com/storage/0911523FCD5F.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1326559642523" alt="" /></span></span>Well, I don&rsquo;t think <em>Employee Development on a Shoestring</em> will put the training industry out of business. Far from it. I wrote this book because <strong>I am passionate about learning and development</strong>. I wrote this book because<strong> I am passionate about supporting leaders</strong> in their efforts to become more effective. And I wrote this book because <strong>often, training is simply not the answer.</strong></p>
<p>It is estimated that 70 percent of all leadership development takes place via on-the-job experiences rather than formal learning events. The &ldquo;<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/70/20/10_Model" target="_blank">70-20-10 rule</a>,&rdquo; as this idea has become known, says that development happens in three ways: 70 percent on-the-job experience, 20 percent through relationships and feedback, and 10 percent from formal training opportunities.</p>
<p>All over the world, supervisors and professionals like you are faced with a challenging task of helping their staff members grow and develop within limited budgets and timelines and ever-increasing pressures to perform more with less. Supervisors and employees desperately need alternatives and complements to the usual approach, because it is not enough. And so many of you are so overwhelmed with a growing workload that you simply don&rsquo;t have the time or the requisite knowledge to come up with creative ideas for developing skills within the parameters that are presented to you.</p>
<p><strong>Well, this book is here to help.</strong></p>
<p>You don&rsquo;t have to spend any time searching for ideas, because they&rsquo;re right here in this book. You don&rsquo;t have to spend time thinking up possible obstacles to each method&mdash;I&rsquo;ve done that for you. And you don&rsquo;t have to spend lots of time designing implementation plans because I&rsquo;ve created the tools and supports that can help you quickly ensure that your employee development methods are successful and sustainable.</p>
<h3>Who Can Benefit From Reading This Book?</h3>
<p><em>Employee Development on a Shoestring</em> is written primarily to address the needs of those in a position to help employees develop in their current jobs. Whether you are a supervisor, a manager, a director, or an executive, a key part of your role (&ldquo;Job 1&rdquo; as <a href="http://www.ebbweb.com/bio_elaine.php" target="_blank">Elaine Biech </a>puts it in her foreword to the book) is to ensure that employees are growing and learning. If you are a talent management, human resource, personnel, talent development, training, organization development, or workplace learning professional, your job is to ensure that supervisors throughout your organization are tending to this &ldquo;Job 1.&rdquo; Perhaps you are a mentor or career counselor or coach, and you are using this book to help your prot&eacute;g&eacute; or client make career development plans. And if you are a self-motivated, self-starting employee, you may enjoy reading this book to get ideas about how to take your development into your own hands rather than waiting for others to suggest strategies to you. Anyone who wants to ensure that employees are developing new skills and knowledge and who realizes that sending them to a training class cannot be, and should not be, the only path to achieve that outcome, should read and benefit from the ideas presented in this book.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: 80%;"><em>Modified excerpt from the Introduction to</em> Employee Development on a Shoestring <em>by Halelly Azulay (ASTD Press, 2012)</em></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 80%;"><em>Headphones image by Kevin_Morris via Flickr Creative Commons</em></span></p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Transparency in a networked world: Merging personas and removing veneers</title><category term="networking"/><category term="personal branding"/><category term="professional branding"/><category term="social media"/><category term="transparency"/><id>http://www.talentgrow.com/blog/transparency-in-a-networked-world-merging-personas-and-remov.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.talentgrow.com/blog/transparency-in-a-networked-world-merging-personas-and-remov.html"/><author><name>TalentGrow</name></author><published>2011-12-16T17:40:41Z</published><updated>2011-12-16T17:40:41Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<h3><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><img src="http://www.talentgrow.com/storage/brand%20by%20Trois%20Tetes%20TT%20via%20Flickr.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1324058018732" alt="" /></span></h3>
<h3>Merging Personas</h3>
<p>Remember the good ol&rsquo; days when you could choose what to display on your office credenza and desk to show a little &lsquo;personality&rsquo;?&nbsp;A picture of a favorite pet, or of your kids or grandkids, or your significant other. Perhaps you had your favorite sports team paraphernalia proudly displayed on a bookshelf. Maybe a trinket you brought back from your European vacation.</p>
<p>And that was that. That was all you shared with your professional colleagues. You controlled what they knew, and chose how much (or little) to reveal about your personal life.</p>
<p>Fast forward to the &ldquo;Googling&rdquo; era&hellip;</p>
<p>Cue Facebook and Twitter stage-left&hellip;</p>
<p>&hellip;And your personal and professional personas are harder to separate. Privacy and anonymity are harder (if not impossible) to attain. Neatly demarcating your &lsquo;professional brand&rsquo; &ndash; how business associates, current and potential clients and the public see you &ndash; from your wine-sipping, shoes-off, family-loving &lsquo;personal brand&rsquo; is not really an option anymore. And the lines are only going to get more blurred and blended.</p>
<p>Enter Generation Y and the 'Net Gen' folks&hellip;</p>
<p>They have grown up with this blended persona as a foregone conclusion, a part of their reality that is not in conflict, but simply an understanding that this is how the world is.</p>
<p>They are bringing to the business world a whole new approach of bringing your whole self to work and play, blending the informal and formal, business and personal and balancing work-life and home-life. And the future is in their hands, so the rest of us have to get used to it and get on with it.</p>
<h3>Removing Veneers</h3>
<p>Just yesterday I had a great conversation with a new colleague, <a href="http://c7group.com/about-us/team/" target="_blank">Jeff Marmins, <span class="caps">CEO </span>of C7 Group</a>. We talked about this very topic in the context of our conversation about the rapidly increasing adoption rate for in-house organizational social networking tools by business for the purpose of internal change management and process improvement as well as brand and client relationship management. As Jeff shared, and as I wrote about in chapter 12 of my upcoming book, <a href="http://www.talentgrow.com/publications-and-media/" target="_blank">Employee Development on a Shoestring</a>, organizations can use in-house social networking platforms to cut through silos and increase innovation, collaboration, and rapid learning, which translates to faster and better service to clients. (Here&rsquo;s a <a href="http://youtu.be/_ISa0VBkyOM" target="_blank">cool video</a> of one such platform, <a href="http://www.jivesoftware.com/" target="_blank">Jive Software</a>. ) &nbsp;These kinds of networking platforms can and often do allow interaction with the mainstream, public platforms (such as Facebook, Twitter, YouTube and LinkedIn). When this cross-fertilization occurs, the company&rsquo;s brand, your professional brand, and your personal brand will be exposed in all their glory. Any &lsquo;veneer&rsquo; that you&rsquo;ve attempted to create so as to shield certain aspects of your identity will be shattered and removed bit by bit, leaving you naked and exposed as a holistic person visible from all angles. It is unavoidable &ndash; it&rsquo;s just a matter of time.</p>
<h3>Naked and Exposed&hellip;?!</h3>
<p>Dr. Nicole Cutts, a friend and colleague, is currently experiencing this effect, as a matter of fact. This fellow entrepreneur has built two business brands: one, her &lsquo;organization development consultant and coach&rsquo; brand (<a href="http://www.cuttsconsulting.com/" target="_blank">Cutts Consulting</a>), which allows her to make a living from providing consulting and coaching services to various corporate and government clients. A second, <a href="http://www.visionquestretreats.com/" target="_blank">Vision Quest Retreats</a>,&nbsp;is her &lsquo;passion&rsquo; brand, an up-and-coming visioning retreat and coaching business catering to women looking to move in the direction of their true life purpose. She has built the brands separately, and has tried to keep them separate (albeit not hidden or secretive). Recently, she has taken a bold and risky (even risqu&eacute;) approach to marketing her &lsquo;passion&rsquo; brand: she started an online networking &lsquo;event&rsquo; called &lsquo;Naked Networking&rsquo;, which was merely a provocative metaphor for shedding veneers and being authentic in all aspects of life. She created clever teaser &lsquo;vlogs&rsquo; (video blogs) that depict her in suggestive, almost-naked-but-still-PG-rated garb promoting her networking events on YouTube and Facebook.</p>
<p>Well, in our &lsquo;Google-ready&rsquo; world, she has experienced the first of many potential ripple effects of her choice. Her two worlds collided when one of her new corporate coaching client googled her only to discover the edgy and suggestive &lsquo;naked networking&rsquo; YouTube videos. <a href="http://www.cuttsconsulting.com/blog/?p=1300&amp;fb_source=message" target="_blank">The new client jumped to judgment and immediately pulled the plug on the business relationship</a>. The &lsquo;naked&rsquo; brand of her new coach didn&rsquo;t fit this client&rsquo;s conservative, business-suit-wearing coach brand expectations!</p>
<p>My colleague has chosen to continue with her transparency and the approach in her new business identity formation, knowing that it will inherently filter out some of her potential corporate clients from choosing to work with her. These are the consequences of a highly networked, transparent, blended persona world. They are also a reality of a world in which <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Long-Tail-Revised-Updated-Business/dp/1401309666/ref=pd_sim_b_2" target="_blank">&lsquo;longtail&rsquo; marketing is possible and endorsed</a>.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h4>Are you ready to face the implications of your personal and business personas merging? Have you dealt with similar issues? I&rsquo;d love to hear about your thoughts and experiences in the comments below!</h4>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><span style="font-size: 80%;">Photo credit: Trois Tetes (TT) via Flickr Creative Commons </span></p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>No One is Ever 'Always' or 'Never'</title><category term="communication"/><category term="conversations"/><category term="feedback"/><id>http://www.talentgrow.com/blog/no-one-is-ever-always-or-never.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.talentgrow.com/blog/no-one-is-ever-always-or-never.html"/><author><name>TalentGrow</name></author><published>2011-11-13T17:23:38Z</published><updated>2011-11-13T17:23:38Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><img style="width: 550px;" src="http://www.talentgrow.com/storage/Never%20by%20Olivier%20H.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1321206797366" alt="" /></span></p>
<p>Here's a quick tip for you: No one is ever 'always' or 'never' __________ (fill in the blank with an adjective or verb).</p>
<p>One of the most sure-fire ways to make a difficult conversation instantly <em>more</em> difficult is to use a <a href="http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/superlative" target="_blank">superlative </a>&nbsp;like 'always' or 'never' to describe the other person's behavior. It is guaranteed to make the conversation partner instantly defensive and offend their sense of justice, because it's probably certain to be a false statement. It's impossible for any human to be 100% consistent in any behavior or approach, positive or negative. And we have a natural need to establish fairness and justice, so the moment someone describes us in this generalized way, we immediately begin to search our memory for contrary examples to prove it is a falsehood.</p>
<p>If you're trying to give feedback, or resolve conflict, the conversation is hard enough to have in the first place - why add difficulty? The person who is now preoccupied with proving you wrong is no longer listening to you or open to hearing your side of things. You've damaged your credibility in their eyes. You've taken them on a detour and now you must dig back from that detour to get back on track. A waste of time for all involved!</p>
<p><strong>Therefore, be very careful to stay specific and factually correct. Instead of saying, "Pat, you're always late with your reports", say, "Pat, you turned in the last three reports late." Keep it objective and keep it constructive.</strong></p>
<p>Have you had any experience with this kind of derailment or escalation? I'd love to learn about it in the comments section below!</p>
<p><span style="font-size: 90%;">Photo by Olivier H. via Flickr Creative Commons</span></p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Retooling and Refreshing to Set Yourself Apart</title><category term="Employee Development on a Shoestring"/><category term="leadership"/><category term="leadership development"/><category term="learning"/><category term="self-development"/><category term="supervision"/><id>http://www.talentgrow.com/blog/retooling-and-refreshing-to-set-yourself-apart.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.talentgrow.com/blog/retooling-and-refreshing-to-set-yourself-apart.html"/><author><name>TalentGrow</name></author><published>2011-10-17T14:21:31Z</published><updated>2011-10-17T14:21:31Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<h5>Cross-posted&nbsp;at <a href="http://seniorfellowsandfriends.blogspot.com/2011/10/retooling-and-refreshing-to-set.html">http://seniorfellowsandfriends.blogspot.com/2011/10/retooling-and-refreshing-to-set.html</a></h5>
<p><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 150px;" src="http://www.talentgrow.com/storage/JohnsonInsideGuideSuperx250.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1318861755629" alt="" /></span></span>The following is an excerpt of a story I wrote for a new book called <a href="http://web7.pmds.com/mConcepts_ebiz/ProductDetail/tabid/55/Default.aspx?ProductId=405&amp;utm_source=Exact_Target&amp;utm_medium=Email&amp;utm_content=PE163&amp;utm_campaign=The_Insider&rsquo;s_Guide_to_Supervising_Government_Employees"><em>The Insider&rsquo;s Guide to Supervising Government Employees</em></a>, edited by Kathryn M. Johnson (Management Concepts Press 2011). The book is a collection of stories from many supervisors whose purpose is to help government supervisors (new and seasoned alike) navigate their responsibilities and challenges more successfully. It covers several key areas including understanding yourself, getting the best work from others, and supervising in a changing work landscape. In this particular story, I illustrate the importance of ongoing self-development to help supervisors continue to achieve success in their role. In my upcoming book, <em>Employee Development on a Shoestring</em> (ASTD Press, expected pub. date April 2012), I describe in much greater detail both the value and suggested approaches for many development methods that happen outside the classroom.</p>
<p>~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~</p>
<p class="Pa10"><span style="color: #221e1f;">Chris&rsquo; excitement was through the roof when he learned that he had been promoted. Finally! He was now officially a supervisor of a newly formed team in his agency. Chris felt a quiet confidence in his ability to excel as he emailed his mentor, Soo-Lin, to share the good news with her. After they scheduled their next monthly &ldquo;coffee talk&rdquo; meeting, Chris sat at his desk making lists of ideas and action items.</span></p>
<p class="Pa22"><span style="color: #221e1f;">A few weeks later, Soo-Lin relaxed into her chair as she congratulated Chris once again on his accomplishment and listened to his tales of his first month as a supervisor. Sipping her coffee, she listened to his stories of excitement and frustration from her perspective of having been in supervisory roles in the federal government for the past 20 years.</span></p>
<p class="Pa30"><span style="color: #221e1f;">&ldquo;What are you doing to ramp up your supervisory skills, Chris?&rdquo; Soo-Lin inquired.</span></p>
<p class="Pa22"><span style="color: #221e1f;">&ldquo;What do you mean?&rdquo; asked Chris.</span></p>
<p class="Pa22"><span style="color: #221e1f;">&ldquo;Well, you have a whole new skill set you need to acquire, and fast. You will certainly learn on the job, but what are you doing to proactively enhance your skills?&rdquo;</span></p>
<p class="Pa22"><span style="color: #221e1f;">&ldquo;I&rsquo;m not sure I have any ideas. What do you suggest?&rdquo; said Chris, looking at Soo-Lin quizzically.</span></p>
<p class="Pa22"><span style="color: #221e1f;">Over the next hour, Soo-Lin shared with Chris some of the resources that she found helpful, including books, seminars, and training classes. But it was the story she told him that really got Chris thinking about how to keep his skills and knowledge fresh now and into the next stages of his career development. </span></p>
<p class="Pa22"><span style="color: #221e1f;">&ldquo;You know, when I first got promoted, there were no supervisory training classes offered and no resources given to me to prepare me for my new role. I had to learn as I went, the hard way. Things went very well for the first couple of years and my hard work was rewarded and rewarding.</span></p>
<p class="Pa22">&ldquo;But then, things began to shift. I was no longer getting the results I wanted from my staff. They seemed unmotivated and deflated, and I felt frustrated with my job. I applied the same techniques that had worked before, but they were just not working in the same way. I felt really stuck and unhappy. Word got around that there might <span style="color: #221e1f;">be a reorganization in our department and I started to worry that I might lose my job.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #221e1f;">&ldquo;That&rsquo;s when I began to realize that I had become stale; my skills and knowledge were not sufficient to produce the performance results I wanted to see. I felt baffled and lost, so I started reading every management book in the library, searching for answers. I also started looking for role models to talk with, both inside and outside my office and agency. I was amazed how happy these successful supervisors were to share their &lsquo;best practices&rsquo; and &lsquo;lessons learned&rsquo; with me, and it was great to learn from them about things I could do or avoid doing&mdash;and not have to learn them the hard way! One told me that he attends the monthly meetings of our field&rsquo;s professional association to learn new techniques and connect and network with other professionals with whom he collaborates and shares ideas. So I started attending these meetings also&mdash;what an eye-opening experience!</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #221e1f;">&ldquo;What I learned, slowly but surely, is that your skills and knowledge need to be constantly upgraded and challenged. You can never rest on your laurels just because you have reached a certain rung on the career ladder; you need to keep working or you&rsquo;ll find yourself falling off&mdash;or getting pushed off. And there are so many different ways available to help you retool, refresh, and learn.&rdquo;</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #221e1f;">This is an exciting time to be a supervisor. You have the opportunity to influence others in a changing landscape. You will be challenged to handle day-to-day issues effectively in the context of an ever-evolving work environment. The best way to create a balance that serves both your employees and your organization well is to keep strengthening your personal capabilities as a supervisor. Only then will you be ready and able to help others envision and prepare to meet the demands of the 21</span><sup><span style="color: #221e1f;">st </span></sup><span style="color: #221e1f;">century government work environment. </span></p>
<h3><span style="color: #221e1f;">More to Think About and Try</span></h3>
<ul>
<li><span style="color: #221e1f;">What are some books, training, and other resources you could access to upgrade your supervisory skills? Are there resources that would help you on an ongoing, continuous basis?</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #221e1f;">Who are some key people who could help you learn and develop your supervisory skills? Are there any groups you could join or people in your current network you could tap to become your mentors or &ldquo;master-mind&rdquo; group? </span></li>
<li><span style="color: #221e1f;">Can you branch out and increase your network to include role models and kindred spirits?</span></li>
<li>
<p>Can you find opportunities to bring supervisors together? Who can&mdash;and is willing to&mdash;share their lessons learned?</p>
</li>
</ul>
<h5>Excerpted with permission from <a href="http://web7.pmds.com/mConcepts_ebiz/ProductDetail/tabid/55/Default.aspx?ProductId=405&amp;utm_source=Exact_Target&amp;utm_medium=Email&amp;utm_content=PE163&amp;utm_campaign=The_Insider&rsquo;s_Guide_to_Supervising_Government_Employees">The Insider&rsquo;s Guide to Supervising Government Employees</a>, edited by Kathryn M. Johnson. &copy; 2011 by Management Concepts, Inc. All rights reserved. <a href="http://www.managementconcepts.com/pubs">www.managementconcepts.com/pubs</a></h5>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Dancing at the edge of comfort: How to develop employees without demotivating them</title><category term="ASTD Press"/><category term="Employee Development on a Shoestring"/><category term="book"/><category term="comfort zone"/><category term="development assignments"/><category term="employee development"/><category term="learning"/><category term="learning cycle"/><id>http://www.talentgrow.com/blog/dancing-at-the-edge-of-comfort-how-to-develop-employees-with.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.talentgrow.com/blog/dancing-at-the-edge-of-comfort-how-to-develop-employees-with.html"/><author><name>TalentGrow</name></author><published>2011-09-08T20:12:11Z</published><updated>2011-09-08T20:12:11Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>I've spent this past summer drafting the manuscript to my first book entitled <em>Employee Development on a Shoestring, </em>which is scheduled to be published by <a href="http://www.astd.org/content/publications/ASTDPress/" target="_blank">ASTD Press</a> in early 2012. My book is full of practical ideas and implementation tips for various ways to help employees develop new knowledge and skills outside the classroom. I'll be blogging various tidbits to whet your appetite before the big book release. Here's the first: enjoy and let me know your thoughts in the comments below!</p>
<h3>Development assignments should push employees to develop just beyond their comfort zone, but no further.
<p><span><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 300px;" src="http://www.talentgrow.com/storage/Comfort%20zone%20image.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1315579088802" alt="" /></span></span></span></p>
</h3>
<p>There are three performance zones:</p>
<p><strong>The Comfort Zone</strong> &ndash; we are fully performing our role. We experience &lsquo;<a href="http://www.mja.com.au/public/issues/181_06_200904/lak10499_fm-1.gif" target="_blank">unconscious competence&rsquo;</a> and mastery. We are able to perform easily and without exerting great effort. We do not find our work overly challenging anymore. We may be doing just enough to get by if we get too comfortable.</p>
<p><strong>The Learning or Stretch Zone</strong> &ndash; just outside the comfort zone, this is where we leverage what we know and do well and are able to focus energy on new skills, tasks, or requirements. We are in a state of &lsquo;<a href="http://www.mja.com.au/public/issues/181_06_200904/lak10499_fm-1.gif" target="_blank">conscious competence&rsquo;</a> where we are building skills but have to be conscious of how we are performing to avoid mistakes and missteps. Our new responsibilities are manageable.</p>
<p><strong>The Panic Zone</strong> &ndash; if we push employees too far and stretch them beyond their capacity, they may become anxious, confused, and discouraged by so many unknown or unpracticed variables. Here we operate in a state of &lsquo;<a href="http://www.mja.com.au/public/issues/181_06_200904/lak10499_fm-1.gif" target="_blank">conscious incompetence&rsquo;</a> and even &lsquo;<a href="http://www.mja.com.au/public/issues/181_06_200904/lak10499_fm-1.gif" target="_blank">unconscious incompetence&rsquo;</a>, which feels uncomfortable and which we would like to avoid.</p>
<h3>Get it 'Just Right'</h3>
<p>When identifying appropriate employee development methods, we need to consider the level of challenge that each type of development activity would present to the employee. The activity or assignment should be challenging, but not so hard that it feels impossibly difficult. Here is a good model to help you match the challenge to the employee's needs. Our goal is to ensure that the employee is just at the edge of their 'comfort zone' -- in the 'learning' or 'stretch' zone -- but not too far and in the 'panic zone'.</p>
<p>So, yes, you could stretch someone too far. And you could stretch someone too little. But you have to identify the sweet spot, the Learning Zone, to get it <em>just right</em>.</p>
<p>What do you think? Have you found this to be true with your or your employees' developmental challenges?</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Conversations = Connections = Relationships</title><category term="best companies to work for"/><category term="big 4"/><category term="connections"/><category term="conversations"/><category term="personal branding"/><category term="relationships"/><id>http://www.talentgrow.com/blog/conversations-connections-relationships.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.talentgrow.com/blog/conversations-connections-relationships.html"/><author><name>TalentGrow</name></author><published>2011-08-06T14:59:12Z</published><updated>2011-08-06T14:59:12Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><img style="width: 500px;" src="http://www.talentgrow.com/storage/farmer%20conversation%20by%20anoldent.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1312645642699" alt="" /></span></p>
<p>I've been working with a <a href="http://money.cnn.com/magazines/fortune/fortune500/2011/">Fortune 100</a>&nbsp;"Big 4" client this month to facilitate&nbsp;multiple learning events called "Building Relationships" to Generation Y high-potential accountants. This two-day workshop is meant to prepare these young professionals to engage on a higher level of leadership with their peers, staff, leaders and clients. I feel very honored to work with this client, one of&nbsp;CNN <a href="http://money.cnn.com/magazines/fortune/bestcompanies/2011/index.html">Money's 100 Best Companies to Work For</a>, and these very bright and ambitious learners. It's great to be surrounded by people who mean business and work hard to do great work.</p>
<p>One of the biggest lessons&nbsp;participants learn in&nbsp;this workshop is that <strong>"conversations create Connections, which&nbsp;in turn build relationships"</strong>. Learners become more aware of the importance of first impressions, their personal brand, and the link between how&nbsp;they come across in&nbsp;their interactions to the bottom line results, customer&nbsp;satisfaction and customer and staff retention. Regardless of your industry and occupation, your technical&nbsp;competence is incredibly important -&nbsp;it's imperative. Yet, for leaders of every rank, the differentiator for sustained retention (both of staff&nbsp;and clients)&nbsp;is rarely your expertise. It is often how you made them feel when you worked with them.</p>
<p>When you connect with others through conversations, you show your humanity - your personal brand. You let your personality and uniqueness shine through. You show curiosity and empathy for THEIR personal perspective and needs. And you create a connection that helps you build a relationship, which is then nurtured and grows with additional conversations and connections. The better the connection, the stronger the relationship. The stronger the relationship, the better the satisfaction of both parties in the work results. The more forgiveness and wiggle-room for any mistakes. The more sustainable the business.</p>
<p>Even if you're an accountant.</p>
<p>This is true for ANYONE.</p>
<p>What connections are you making? How are you nurturing your important business relationships?</p>
<p><span style="font-size: 80%;">Photo credit: anoldent via Flickr Creative Commons</span></p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Words Count and Perceptual Filters Matter</title><category term="communication"/><category term="impact"/><category term="interpretation"/><category term="perception"/><category term="teach a man to fish"/><category term="video"/><category term="words"/><id>http://www.talentgrow.com/blog/words-count-and-perceptual-filters-matter.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.talentgrow.com/blog/words-count-and-perceptual-filters-matter.html"/><author><name>TalentGrow</name></author><published>2011-05-17T16:26:39Z</published><updated>2011-05-17T16:26:39Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<h3>It's not just what you say - it's how you say it that matters, just as much and sometimes more so.</h3>
<p>Words are powerful and can help you communicate your message in a way that elicits the intended impact. This lesson was illustrated beautifully in a viral video. I'll add a bit more, but first, I'll let you watch&nbsp;it:</p>
<p><span style="color: #1f497d;"><iframe width="560" height="349" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/Hzgzim5m7oU" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe></span></p>
<h3><span style="color: #1f497d;">Family drama, perception, and&nbsp;fishing</span></h3>
<p>I really enjoyed this video, and found its 'Words Count' message&nbsp;profound and moving. It illustrates also that you can tell a story without a lot of words and still have a powerful effect. As I often do with videos and articles that I enjoy, I shared it - with my friends on Facebook, and also with my family. The conversation that ensued in a string of back-and-forth emails with my family caught me off guard and reinforced for me another lesson, which I'd like to share: <strong>Perception Matters</strong>.</p>
<p>What I saw in that video was the key message that <span class="caps">HOW </span>you phrase your message can have a meaningful effect (positive or negative) on how your message is received and the results you get. I saw secondary messages in this video but did not choose to focus on them. However, a couple of my family members had a very different reaction. They pointed out that the woman in the video did not give the beggar any money (true). They said she seemed like the stereotypical cold, aloof businesswoman who came and implemented a 'process improvement hack' on the beggar to elicit greater monetary results (true). They also said that when she came back to see how things changed as a result of her hack, that it was almost surprising she didn't charge the beggar a commission for her 'consulting' work.</p>
<p>This was not my intended impact. I could have focused on those interpretations, but I did not. Also, I do not believe that it is proper for this man to sit and ask for alms in the first place, and this video may seem to condone it. So by sending it, I could be seen as&nbsp;somehow condoning begging and supporting the act of enabling begging by giving beggars money. But it wasn't the point.</p>
<p>This difference in interpretations&nbsp;shows that what we see is <span class="caps">SELECTIVE </span>and is always filtered through our unique lens. Our perspective, life experiences, biases, mood, culture, and many other factors are always at work as we perceive the world around us and especially as we communicate with each other. Therefore, there is a strong likelihood that our communication partners are <span class="caps">NOT </span>seeing and hearing things in the same way that we did because they have different perceptual filters working. This is a concept I often teach my coaching, facilitation, and training clients when I explain to them the power of the Ladder of Inference (see more about this in my next blog post).</p>
<p>This is where fishing comes in (in case you were wondering why I included it in the title of this section). I believe that even though the executive in the video did not give the beggar some change, she gave him something much more valuable - she improved his ability to get his message across in a more positively impactful way. This allowed him to exponentially improve his results - much more powerful than the impact of adding a few coins to his jar. There is an old proverb we have all heard that fits here beautifully:</p>
<blockquote>
<p>"Give a man a fish, and you've fed him for a day; Teach a man to fish, and you've fed him for a lifetime."</p>
</blockquote>
<h4>So, how did you first interpret the video? Did you have a similar reaction to me or to my contrarian family members? And how have you experienced the power of words in your life? Or the power of perceptual filters? I'd love to read about it in the blog <em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">comments </span></em>below!</h4>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>P.S. To add to this story, I later read some of the comments on the YouTube site for the above video and discovered that this short film is a copy of the original Mexican Short Film: Historia de un letrero, (The Story of a Sign). It is almost identical! Is this plagiarism? I do not know. Here is the original, for your viewing pleasure:&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;<iframe width="425" height="349" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/zyGEEamz7ZM" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe></p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>To Micromanage or Not to Micromanage? A Lesson From Goldilocks</title><category term="employee development"/><category term="feedback"/><category term="goldilocks"/><category term="ken blanchard"/><category term="leadership"/><category term="management"/><category term="management style"/><category term="micromanager"/><category term="micromanaging"/><category term="situational leadership"/><id>http://www.talentgrow.com/blog/to-micromanage-or-not-to-micromanage-a-lesson-from-goldilock.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.talentgrow.com/blog/to-micromanage-or-not-to-micromanage-a-lesson-from-goldilock.html"/><author><name>TalentGrow</name></author><published>2011-04-11T14:39:58Z</published><updated>2011-04-11T14:39:58Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.talentgrow.com/storage/Goldilocks%20by%20Krystn%20Palmer%20Photography.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1302532557242" alt="" /></span></span>You've seen it done: the manager hovers over the employee's work, breathing down her neck, and giving her specific, detailed, over-controlling instructions and corrections. It's every employee's nightmare: the Micromanaging Manager.</p>
<p>Or is it?</p>
<h3>Defining Micromanagement</h3>
<p>Let's take a closer look at this concept we call Micromanagement. According to <a href="http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/micromanage" target="_blank">Merriam-Webster's Online Dictionary</a>, micromanagement is "manage[ment] especially with excessive control or attention on details". <a href="http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/micromanage" target="_blank">Dictionary.com</a>defines micromanagement as "manage[ment] or control with excessive attention to minor details".</p>
<p>Key word: <strong>EXCESSIVE</strong>.</p>
<h3>Employee Development and Management Style</h3>
<p>When I work with managers and supervisors on improving their management and leadership skills, one of the theories they find very enlightening is <a href="http://www.kenblanchard.com/About_Ken_Blanchard_Companies/Blanchard_Bios/ken_blanchard/" target="_blank">Ken Blanchard's</a> time-tested Situational Leadership. In a nutshell, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Situational_leadership_theory" target="_blank">Situational Leadership</a> says that there is no 'one-size-fits-all' way to manage employees. Rather, managers should always gauge the employee's (or team's) level of <a href="http://kenblanchard.net/files/pdf/SLII_Teach_Others.pdf" target="_blank">competence and commitment</a> as related to a specific task or goal to identify the best-fit management style for them.</p>
<p>Some employees are highly-skilled and self-motivated to complete a task autonomously. They need little input and guidance from their manager for that task. Other employees are new to the organization, team, or task and are still facing the steep initial learning curve. They are not yet highly-skilled and usually feel unsure or apprehensive about their ability to succeed with a particular task or goal. These employees need lots of clear, specific instructions from their leader. They benefit from frequent follow-up conversations and feedback touch-points because they feel supported and guided in their first tentative steps on a new task or project.</p>
<p>Very briefly, the&nbsp;key take-away is that different employees need differing levels of controls and guidance. What might be excessive controls for one employee may be totally appropriate for another. Therefore, the very behaviors that exemplify the much-hated 'Micromanagement' and irritate seasoned employees are the Good Manager behaviors for new employees or for employees approaching unfamiliar tasks.</p>
<p>So I propose that we need to be more careful in throwing that term around.</p>
<h3>Does Office Layout Contribute to Micromanagement Behaviors?</h3>
<p>In addition to a tendency to be overly consistent in management style (instead of tailoring it to the employee's development level and needs), there are other traps and obstacles that may contribute to a manager applying excessive controls or attention to minor details that are environmental in nature.</p>
<p>Some organizations arrange employees and managers in open floor plans or in modular cubicles where managers and staff are sitting together. This is great for open communication and transparency, but can be a trap for those managers with a tendency to over-control. Managers who sit among their staff are more likely to hear how employees go about doing their work, overhear their conversations, and be the target for frequent questions and requests for input and advice.</p>
<p>My colleague <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/pub/howard-walper/1/300/7b" target="_blank">Howard Walper</a>&nbsp;recently described this very challenge to me. "Since I sit in an open-floor area with my direct reports, I notice how easily I can get 'in-the-weeds' and immersed in the tactical, day-to-day details of the work with which I entrust them" says Walper, a Senior Manager of Conferences for a publishing company in Houston, Texas. "I have to consciously resist the urge to allow my 'present-presence' affect my ability to lead strategically and let staff do their work independently. I have to resist hovering and doting and let them learn and solve problems on their own, serving as a go-to resource when they need me rather than flying in and 'saving' them from thinking through challenges."</p>
<h3>Resist the Urge to Hover; Apply Appropriate Management Style</h3>
<p>The bottom line for any manager is: the&nbsp;urge to micromanage is natural. In some cases, the behavior your intuition guides&nbsp;you to use is actually totally appropriate and&nbsp;should not be considered micromanagement. In many cases, however, it is an urge you must overcome and control if you want employees to be independent, critical-thinking, high performing team members. Too much hovering will create resentful automatons at best, and an exodus from your department/team at worst.&nbsp;<span style="font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif'; font-size: 9pt;">Apply the lessons of Situational Leadership and be sure to treat employees just like Goldilocks wanted to have it: just right.&nbsp;Give them what their current commitment and competency level calls for; no more and no less.</span></p>
<p>
<p>Have you experienced&nbsp;micromanagement as a manager or an employee? What are your thoughts about it? I'd love to hear them - please comment below!&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
</p>
<p><em style="font-size: 90%;">Photo by Krystn Palmer Photography via Flickr Creative Commons</em></p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Strenghts, Schmengths! (or, "I Don't Get to Use My Strengths Regularly at Work. Now What?")</title><category term="employee development"/><category term="marcus buckingham"/><category term="putting your strengths to work"/><category term="strengths"/><category term="strengths movement"/><category term="strengths-based development"/><id>http://www.talentgrow.com/blog/strenghts-schmengths-or-i-dont-get-to-use-my-strengths-regul.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.talentgrow.com/blog/strenghts-schmengths-or-i-dont-get-to-use-my-strengths-regul.html"/><author><name>TalentGrow</name></author><published>2011-03-07T12:30:00Z</published><updated>2011-03-07T12:30:00Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><img style="width: 500px;" src="http://www.talentgrow.com/storage/woman%20factory%20worker%20circa%201939.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1299363254384" alt="" /></span></p>
<p><a href="http://www.talentgrow.com/blog/2011/1/25/putting-your-strengths-to-work.html">Previously</a>, I discussed how to put your strength to work. I also mentioned briefly that there might be&nbsp;some of you who, upon assessing your current situation, find that you have a deficit in your ability to use and grow your strengths in your current context.</p>
<p>You need to shift something. There are a few ways to do this that I mentioned briefly in my previous post. I'll now expand on each of them:</p>
<ol>
<li>Change Your Approach</li>
<li>Change Your Perspective</li>
<li>Change Your Role</li>
<li>
<p>Change Your Environment</p>
</li>
</ol>
<h3>1. Change Your Approach</h3>
<p>First things first, look in the mirror: Are you SURE you can't use your strengths in your current situation? What could you be doing to contribute to this reality? Are there assumptions you are making that are not based on actual observable facts and/or which you have not actually tested?&nbsp;</p>
<p>Many times, we jump to conclusions about what is or isn't possible without actually fully examining the possibilities or even fully assessing the root cause of a (real or perceived) problem. So before throwing your hands up in despair or looking for a change in your situation, try to find as many different ways to examine, observe, and understand your current situation. You might find that the obstacles in your way were a figment of your imagination...</p>
<h3>2. Change Your Perspective</h3>
<p>If you are pretty certain that you are, in fact, blocked in some way from using your strengths in your current work situation, you might be able to use a technique called 'reframing' to help yourself change the situation in your favor. Reframing is looking at something using a different perspective, or lens, to change how you experience it.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.tmbc.com/mb/biography" target="_blank">Marcus Buckingham</a>*, one of the leaders of the Strengths Movement, said this well in his book, <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Put-Your-Strengths-Work-Outstanding/dp/0743261674" target="_blank">Go Put Your Strengths to Work</a></em>.&nbsp; When you are faced with activities that are not supporting your strengths, Buckingham suggests you "[l]ook at the activity through the lens of one of your strengths, and you might well be able to transform its effect on you." Try to think of ways that this activity you loathe may work in service of one (or more) of your strengths rather than just seeing it in isolation. Says Marcus, "[i]f you loathe confronting people but love the feeling of follow-through, shift your perspective so that you see the confrontation as merely one step in following the project ... through to completion. If you loathe doing budgets but love being viewed as a vital member of the team, shift your perspective to see how doing the budget will ultimately help the team."</p>
<p><em style="font-size: 90%;"><span>*Check out this </span></em><a href="http://www.talentgrow.com/communicator-and-partner/"><em style="font-size: 90%;"><span>picture of yours-truly with Marcus Buckingham </span></em></a><em style="font-size: 90%;"><span>when I&nbsp;produced his presentation here in DC&nbsp;for the Metro DC ASTD chapter back in 2007. It's a terribly blurry shot but I was so pleased to meet him.&nbsp;</span></em></p>
<h3>3. Change Your Role</h3>
<p>Bottom line: if your current role doesn't allow you to use your strengths regularly, perhaps you need to shift your role to one that does! I know it's not that easy. Nothing worth doing is ever easy. But it's worth doing because of the endless returns you will receive by shifting from being in a place of working from weaknesses to a place of working from strengths. Look around the organization and start spying other roles that could let you shine. Think creatively about your current role and department, and think outside the box about other ways you could be doing work in service of the same mission but using other skills. Talk to your boss: you may be surprised that he or she will be willing to entertain shifting your role to have you add more value to the organization. It is a win-win proposition, after all. It's worth a shot.</p>
<p>And, if all else fails, there is always option #4...</p>
<h3>4. Change Your Environment</h3>
<p>If you've done all you can to change yourself, your perspective, your role within the organization, and it's still not working, you can always change your environment and take a different job. This is obviously not a decision to be made lightly as it has significant ramifications on many aspects of your life, but sometimes I'm saddened by people who resign themselves to a miserable job where they feel depleted and weakened every day because they don't want to consider this as an option. You are not an indentured slave. You are free to choose. You are free to make your life the best life it can be. And life is way too precious and short to be lived miserably or in the shadows of fear. You don't have to just jump into the dark, unknown abyss; you can craft a thoughtful exit strategy.&nbsp;But start now to plan your better future where you can live in your strengths, because you're worth it. And, since&nbsp;the world will benefit from your gifts more fully that way, the world also deserves it.</p>
<p>It's only too late if you don't start thinking about a plan NOW to find a way to use your strengths, daily, and to live a fuller, more enjoyable, more productive life.</p>
<p>What do you think? Please comment below with your thoughts, questions, and challenges. I would love to hear from you.</p>
<p>I'll leave you with this short video clip from Marcus Buckingham.</p>
<p><iframe title="YouTube video player" width="480" height="390" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/ZNt7wCS2Yh8" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 90%;">Photo credit: The Library of Congress via Flickr Creative Commons - it was taken circa 1939. I really like it!</span></p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>News: Halelly Azulay certified to administer the Bar-On EQ-i instrument</title><category term="Bar-On"/><category term="EQ-i"/><category term="certification"/><category term="emotional intelligence"/><category term="index on emotional intelligence"/><category term="leadership"/><category term="leadership development"/><id>http://www.talentgrow.com/blog/news-halelly-azulay-certified-to-administer-the-bar-on-eq-i.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.talentgrow.com/blog/news-halelly-azulay-certified-to-administer-the-bar-on-eq-i.html"/><author><name>TalentGrow</name></author><published>2011-02-05T04:02:39Z</published><updated>2011-02-05T04:02:39Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>I've just successfully completed a certification program in the&nbsp;most popular of all&nbsp;Emotional Intelligence tools -- the <a href="http://www.mhs.com/product.aspx?gr=io&amp;prod=eqi&amp;id=overview">EQ-i or Emotional Quotient Inventory</a>. The program was excellent and I enjoyed learning and growing my skills and knowledge - it's one of my favorite things to do, considering 'Love of Learning' is my #3 signature strength! (I've discussed it <a href="http://www.talentgrow.com/blog/2011/1/6/do-you-get-to-use-your-strengths-in-your-work.html">here</a>.)</p>
<p>While I've been using the concepts of Emotional Intelligence in my work for years and am already certified in another EQ instrument, the Index on Emotional Intelligence, this new certification fortifies my understanding and ability to help leaders, teams, organizations and individuals become more effective in all aspects of work and life.</p>
<p>This instrument, based on the Model of Emotional Intelligence formulated by clinical psychologist,&nbsp;Reuven Bar-On, PhD,&nbsp;is administered online and is valid and reliable. It&nbsp;is actionable: it offers a rich portrait&nbsp;of how engaged&nbsp;we are with each of fifteen behaviors and habits&nbsp;that allow us to use emotions in a rational, positive, and constructive way that helps us build healthy and productive relationships. In working with it, we can better understand ourselves and identify and prioritize ways to improve our effectiveness and satisfaction&nbsp;by letting emotions (our own and others') work FOR us instead of AGAINST us.</p>
<p>If you would like to learn&nbsp;more about this tool and how it can help you and your organization become more effective, please call us for a free consultation today.</p>]]></content></entry></feed>
